Traditions

Christmas is the season for traditions. I won't be trite in repeating the obvious ones. But there is one that we have been observing for the past 8 or 9 years or so. Every year since they moved into their new house my brother-in-law and his wife have held a party at their house that gives relatives in the area an opportunity to get together during the Christmas season. Well, that was held last night and a great time was had by all. So, Thanks to Don and Nadine! This was a nice highlight for the season.

Another tradition is Christmas Eve at our house. We would always have the kids and grandkids over for a nice meal, then open gifts. Because two of our kids live in other states this tradition has somewhat eroded away. There are times we go to them for this holiday. When a tradition is broken I always feel a sense of loss. But things change and life goes on and new traditions are being created in our children's families.

Traditionally, we also give gifts to each family member. It's always a delight to see the faces of the children light up as they open each gift. Thank God for digital cameras! I thought about the gift I might receive this year. I have everything I need and almost everything I want. But the think I want most is the gift of my children and grandchildren looking me in the face and saying, "I love you." That can't be wrapped in paper and bows and be made to look pretty. It is beautiful on it's own.

So it is my wish that all my family and everyone who reads this blog will have a Christmas filled with you favorite traditions, foods and gifts. But most of all I hope that each one of you gives and receives the gift of true, unadorned love, as it comes from it's rawest state, straight from the heart. Believe me, there was no adornments, and putting on of airs at the manger where God gave the the greatest gift of all.... His Son. It was a cold, dark, and lonely place, but it is there he demonstrated his love. So this Christmas, express your love in the truest and humblest way you can to those you truly love. It is the greatest gift you can ever give.

Merry Christmas!